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Mehndi

Thursday, July 8, 2027 · 4:00 PM – 8:00 PM · Unit 47 – 170 Havelock Dr, Brampton, ON L6W 4T3

What Is Mehndi?

Mehndi is a beautiful pre-wedding tradition where intricate henna designs are applied to the bride's hands and feet, symbolizing love, happiness and blessings for the marriage.

But Mehndi is about more than just henna! It's a joyful celebration where family and friends come together before the wedding to enjoy music, food, laughter and good company.

Traditionally, women gather around the bride during the henna application, but our celebration is for everyone! Men, women, family and friends are all welcome to join in the festivities and share this special evening with us.

Good to know

  • Time: The celebration runs from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM. Guests are welcome to arrive at 4:00 PM to settle in, mingle with family and friends, and enjoy the celebration before henna applications begin.
  • Henna: We will have two henna artists. One will be dedicated to the bride, bridesmaids and family members, while the second will be available for guests. The guest henna artist will arrive at 4:00 PM and begin applying henna at 4:30 PM. Guest henna will be offered as time permits.
  • Food: Dinner will be served buffet-style for everyone to enjoy.
  • Attire: Please wear green or yellow. Traditional clothing is welcome but not required. We just ask that everyone stick to these colours.

Wedding Ceremony

Friday, July 9, 2027 · 8:30 AM – 4:00 PM · Pearl Banquet Hall – 1638 Aimco Blvd, Mississauga, ON L4W 1V1

This is our main wedding day: a traditional Nepali ceremony celebrating our marriage and the joining of our two families.

We have chosen a traditional ceremony to honour Milan's Nepali heritage and the customs and values that are meaningful to his family. Sharing these traditions with Whitney's family is a special way to bring our backgrounds together as we begin married life.

If you haven't attended a Nepali wedding before, we want you to feel comfortable and included. We'll have designated people available to explain the rituals and answer your questions. Their names will be shared on the wedding day, so you'll know who to turn to throughout the ceremony.

Our Wedding Ceremony — What to Expect

Here is a little guide to the traditions bringing us and our families together. The order is not exact and may change during the ceremony, but this will give you an idea of what to expect and what each moment means.

  1. Janti — The Groom's ArrivalMilan arrives with his family and friends in a joyful procession, welcomed by Whitney's family.
  2. The Bride's EntranceWhitney makes her entrance and joins Milan at the mandap, our ceremonial wedding space, surrounded by the love of our families.
  3. Swayamvar — Choosing Each OtherWe exchange garlands, each welcoming the other as a life partner and celebrating our choice to build a life together.
  4. Family Gift ExchangeOur families exchange gifts as a gesture of love and welcome. Whitney's family presents Milan with a new outfit, while Milan's family presents Whitney with one.
  5. Kanyadaan — Her Family's BlessingsWhitney's family gives her hand in marriage to Milan, offering their love and blessings as we begin this new chapter together.
  6. Havan — The Sacred FireThe sacred fire represents Agni, the Hindu fire deity, and serves as a divine witness to our marriage. Guided by our priest, we participate in prayers and offerings, seeking blessings for our life together.
  7. Outfit Change — Halfway Through the CeremonyMidway through the ceremony, Whitney changes into the outfit gifted by Milan's family, then returns to continue the wedding rituals.
  8. Seven Rounds Around the Sacred FireTogether, we circle the sacred fire seven times as our priest guides us through prayers and vows. With the fire as our witness, we affirm our commitment to care for one another and share the responsibilities of married life.
  9. Sindoor & Pote — Symbols of MarriageMilan applies sindoor, a red powder, to the parting of Whitney's hair and presents her with a pote, a traditional beaded necklace. These are symbols of marriage in Nepali culture.
  10. Tika & Ashirbad — Blessings for Our FutureTogether, we receive tika, a ceremonial mark on the forehead, and blessings from our elders, carrying their love and good wishes into our married life.
  11. Bidaai — A Loving FarewellWhitney shares an emotional farewell with her family before we leave together as a married couple. It marks a new chapter in our lives, with the love and support of both families.

Good to know

  • Time: 8:30 AM–4:00 PM. Please arrive on time so we can begin promptly and finish by 4 PM.
  • Food: Breakfast and lunch will be served buffet-style, with vegetarian dishes as well as chicken.
  • Attire: Please follow the outfit details we have shared with you. If you haven't discussed your attire yet, please reach out to us directly.

Reception

Sunday, July 11, 2027 · 5:00 PM – Late · Bombay Palace – 200 Advance Blvd, Brampton, ON L6T 4V4

After all the beautiful traditions and ceremonies, it's time to celebrate!

Our reception is where both of our families, friends and cultures come together for one big celebration. We'll be bringing a little bit of Nepal, Kenya, St. Lucia and England into the evening, celebrating not only our marriage but also the people and traditions that have shaped who we are.

Join us for a night of delicious food, music, dancing, laughter and memories as we celebrate the beginning of our next chapter together.

Good to know

  • Time: The reception starts at 5 PM and will continue past midnight, for as long as everyone wants to keep dancing and celebrating!
  • Attire – Bring Your Culture! Formal attire is requested, and all colours are welcome. We especially encourage everyone to wear traditional or cultural clothing that represents their heritage. This celebration isn't just about our cultures, but about bringing everyone's cultures together. We want everyone to feel proud of where they come from, and we can't wait to see the beautiful diversity!
  • Food & Dining: Dinner will be served buffet-style, featuring a mix of Nepali, Western and Caribbean dishes, along with vegetarian options. Each dish will have a label identifying its ingredients to help guests make informed choices.

Same Love • Different Traditions • A Brighter Tomorrow

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